Getting here & staying over

Travel & Stay

8 minutes from the venue

The Pinegrove Inn

Twenty-two rooms in a converted farmhouse. Breakfast is included and genuinely good.

Block code
MAYAETHAN
Rate
$189 / night
Book by
May 8, 2027
Directions to the inn

15 minutes from the venue

Harrow House Hotel

The larger option, with a pool and family rooms. Shuttle runs to and from the venue all evening.

Block code
CALLOWAY27
Rate
$154 / night
Book by
May 8, 2027
Directions to the hotel

Directions

Driving in

The venue sits about forty minutes northwest of Waterbury. The last half mile is an unpaved lane — go slowly, and ignore your navigation when it tells you to turn at the white gate.

Parking
Free, on site
Overnight
Cars may be left until noon Sunday
Directions to the venue

Flying in

Nearest airports

Bradley International is the easiest at about an hour. Hartford and New Haven both have rail connections if you would rather not drive.

Shuttles
From both hotels, 3:30 PM
Return
10:30 PM and 11:15 PM

If you would like to

Registry

Your being there is genuinely the whole point, and nobody is counting. But several of you have asked, so here is everything in one place instead of five.

Home & Table

Everyday things for a first house together.

View list Linen & Co.

Bedding, towels and the good tablecloth.

View list Kitchen Co.

Pans, knives, and one very ambitious mixer.

View list Honeymoon Fund

Two weeks in Portugal, if we are lucky.

Contribute Valley Food Bank

Or give it to them instead. We would love that.

Donate

Kindly reply by April 10, 2027

RSVP

Will you be joining us?

Thank you

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Before you ask

Questions

Garden formal. Suits and summer dresses. The ceremony is on grass, so block heels or flats will serve you far better than stilettos, and it cools down quickly once the sun drops behind the trees.
Yes, and we would love to see them. There is a children’s plate on the RSVP form and a quiet room upstairs in the mill if anyone needs a break from the noise.
Your invitation names everyone we have a seat for. If you are not sure, ask us — it is a small room and we would rather sort it out now than count chairs on the day.
Everything moves inside the mill and carries on exactly as planned. We will post an update here by noon on the day, so check this page before you set out.
During the ceremony, please keep phones away — we have a photographer and we would rather see your faces. Afterwards, photograph everything.